Ten Tips For Men On Successful Date And Great Impression
Ten Tips For Men On Successful Date And Great Impression: There is an old saying that “you never get a second chance to make a good first impression.” keeping that in mind, it is decisive to be fully prepared to make a great impression on each date you go on.
1. Have a Proper Look-Up
One of the worst things you could do when going out on a date is to turn up unshaven, untidy and smelling. Women prefer cleanliness and will partly judge you on how hygienic you are. After all, you would be disheartened if she turned up for the date looking like a mongrel with tangled fur that hadn’t bathed for long.
It doesn’t cost and take much time to take a bath and to make an effort to look smart and well-dressed. Remember, bad breath and body odor are an instant turn off which shut your chances, and she will assume that this is how you are all the time even if you are not. As a result, she won’t be able to see beyond your appearance and won’t date you again. So make sure you make a perfect impression.
2. Arrive on Time
Wherever you are, Whatever you do, don’t turn up late on your date. Turning up late will send up all the wrong impressions. At first, she may think she’s been stood up, but after arriving late, her opinion will change to you being careless and unreliable, as she was on time. If you are picking her up from her home, then turn up five minutes before you are due. Earlier, you might catch her adjusting her dresses or makeup or still getting ready. Five minutes early is the best you should arrive, and moreover, you won’t get bored. But never be late.
3. Give Her a Thoughtful Gift
A woman always feels special when the man she is with presents her a thoughtful gift. What is a thoughtful gift? Well, you obvious know some things about a woman that came from casual hangout, chats, emails, etc. Find what you know and buy her an appropriate date gift. For example, if that woman is fond of anything or she likes it badly, then try to gift her related to her like. For a generic thoughtful gift, buy chocolate and a rose. This would make a great first date gift. That’s always appropriate without being overboard.
4. Be a Gentleman
At first open the door and hold it, let her walk through the doors, then, pull her chair and allow her to sit, be polite to her along with the people around you. For example, if you take a woman to any restaurant, don’t call any attendees or waiters by whistling or any new technique. Women like to feel special and by treating her like a lady, she will think you are matured enough though fantastic.
5. Compliment Her
The first thing you need to compliment her “you look beautiful” before you even ask how she is. Keep up the compliments throughout your date, but not continuously. A woman always loves to be praised and to feel special and beautiful and to think that you are attracted to her. The more sincere and observant your compliment is, the bigger impact it will have on her about you. But remember do not try to flatter her by praising all the time, as she will get to know the fake ones.
6. Listen to Her and Ask Questions
You might not have the whole night to look each other. But you do have to get to know each other. Ask her questions, but more important listen to what she has to say. A woman is more attracted to a man who is genuinely interested in listening and understanding what she has to say. Spend a lot more time asking her questions and allowing her talk than talking yourself. Don’t interrupt her when she is excited to say something.
7. Prepare for the Conversation
The last thing you want is to be sitting at a meal with some good conversations. Think about the women and what you would like to know about her. You may think that it is easy to talk and that you will not run out of questions to ask or that you will automatically have the answers, but until you are in the situation, you have no idea what it will be like. All your focus, attention, and conversation must be fully on her. Don’t make long gaps in the conversation. Avoid talking about past relations.
8. Pay for the Date
It’s virtually always appropriate for a gentleman to offer to pay for the date. When a man takes it upon himself to pay for the date, he is displaying that old act of women feel more comfortable going “dutch” and she might insist on so let her know before the date that you plan on paying for it.
9. The Goodnight Kiss
After a first date, some women prefer not to kiss, while others may be disappointed if the guy doesn’t even try to kiss. It’s not easy to find out whom to kiss or whom to not. Body language and chemistry throughout the date is the main key in the decision you make. If it feels right, then you may want to consider making the move. If it doesn’t feel right then, a warm hug may be appropriate at that moment.
10. I’ll Call You
Only tell her that you will call her if you mean it and intend on seeing her again. Do not tell her you will call her if you are not interested and have no plans to call her. In this case, when saying goodbye, just say, “It was nice meeting you” and wish her luck. Or you could just say good night, smile and walk. But if you do like her and are interested, then you must let her know.